WARNING: the next paragraphs( well really Looong sentences) might be offensive to some people.Its just me babbling about something I feel very strongly about.
Im am proud to say after 7 months of dating, I am not married (yet) or raising any babies!!!! Yes I love him, love him enough to say out loud if he did propose, I would accept in a heartbeat; however I do believe we need some years. I really find it incredibly amazing how many people I know date for 4 months, marry and are my age already raising a child??!!!!!!¡¡¡¡¡ We are only in our early 20's, we have our whole life to be raising a kid.
I honestly dont care when I get married, as long as I and my husband are happy (After college would be preferred) and I AINT RAISIN NO BABIES until Ive been happily married or some years, financially settled, and have a confident stay-put job. GIRLS: Its called condoms and birth control!
I feel as if I am still a child, and from what I know now to what ill know in 10 years, will have a dramatic difference. So Sorry if I offended any of you reading this, its your life and you should live how you want to live, but your dream is my nightmare!
anyways like I said I am very happy right now in my life to have Oye be apart of it. He is the BEST boyfriend anyone could have, he puts up with my crazy stressed out moments, and when I just act like an alien freak. I LOVE you and im psyched to see where our relationship goes from here. Cheers to many years to come!♥
LOVE THIS. People don't take marriage seriously these days! And they start having kids too soon after getting married! What happened to quality time with your loved one?! I'm proud to say I didn't get married until after my husband and I had been together almost 4 years. We're almost at 5 now and we're enjoying our quality time, just us together, and still going strong! Your first relationship sounds like so much fun :) Congrats gorgeous and I look forward to reading about when you get to see him again! Love ya!
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